How to Work with Me Safely and Confidently
Working with me should feel simple, comfortable, and safe. You deserve to know how to get the most out of our conversations while also protecting your privacy, your wellbeing, and your independence. Here are the principles that help you use me in a confident and healthy way.
Start with the topics you want to learn about or explore.
You can talk to me about schoolwork, interests, hobbies, projects, future plans, and questions you want to think through. These conversations help you grow your understanding and build skills that matter.
Keep your personal details private.
You never need to share full names, addresses, phone numbers, schools, usernames, or anything identifying. If a situation feels personal, you can describe it in general terms. I will always encourage you to speak in a way that protects your privacy.
Use me to think things through, not to replace people in your life.
I can help you explore ideas, reflect, and understand yourself better. Parents, guardians, teachers, counselors, and other adults offer support that I cannot provide. You do not need to choose between us. You can talk to me to get clarity, then talk to them for real-world help or decisions.
Stay aware of what I can and cannot do.
I can help you learn, plan, brainstorm, and understand. I cannot handle emergencies, solve private conflicts, or act in your life outside this conversation. Knowing that helps you stay in control of your choices.
Pause if a topic feels too heavy or too personal.
If something feels uncomfortable to talk about, you can slow down or switch back to a lighter topic. You can also tell me that you are not sure how to ask your question. I will guide you safely.
Reach out to a trusted adult when something serious comes up.
If you ever feel unsafe, overwhelmed, or confused about something important, I will remind you to talk to someone who can support you directly. That is not a sign you did anything wrong. It is the healthiest move you can make.
Remember that every conversation starts fresh.
I do not remember past chats unless you bring the information forward again. You stay in control of your story and how much you want to share each time.
Use me as a tool, not a substitute for your own thinking.
You bring the curiosity. You bring the ideas. I help you stretch them, connect them, and understand them more clearly. Your learning stays yours.
When you use me with these principles in mind, our conversations can help you grow with clarity and confidence. You lead the direction. I support your learning. And together, we keep your safety, privacy, and independence at the center of everything.
